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"You were abused for your entire childhood and now here you are older and totally fucked up but it’s normal"

I feel that the next chunk provides the answer: "and you understand how others are fucked up too"

Instead of going "one solution is the trauma therapy etc" I would tend to go one step further and express something like "but the problem is that if you see yourself that much fucked up, and others too, there is no reason such thing would stop. Think about the implications, and the institutions in motion right now etc etc"

This makes the trauma healing less relevant in the light of your article. This being said, and finding myself in the fucked up situation you mentioned, I surely, definitely, whole-hearthedly, agree with the trauma therapy, the need for trauma therapy. it's actually a "Yes! Any trauma therapy, whatever trauma therapy". Truly relieving any ounce of trauma, in such setting, becomes invaluable, is rare occurence. On that one, I may say that the real one is the one you succeed by yourself, not something a psy can trigger. But I may be wrong. To me most psys are Freudian bullshits

I would be eager to know how you do in general as you seem familiar with what you express. For me, it's just accepting the trauma and keeping in mind that each day can be sometimes very rude. In so I completely let the trauma therapy on the side, any hope for it. It's that if it happens, it's a bonus; first top priority is to remain standing on my two legs. So strength and hope for something far away that I rarely experience. Becoming rough and rough, a bastard sometimes, but in the end one sincerely looks for some "Christ" or so

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